Life is like throwing a ball against the wall. If a green ball is thrown, it will bounce back green. If it is a blue ball that is thrown, it will return blue. If it is thrown weakly, it will again bounce back weakly. If the ball is thrown with strength, it will return with and equivalent strength.
SO IN LIFE, NEVER THROW A BALL THAT YOU ARE NOT READY TO RECEIVE BACK.
Life does not give or lend. Nor it feels touched, nor pities. All it does is to return what we offer.